Think that was half the battle I was so upset listening to her cry that I would run in at the first whimper and make it worse. She is back from grandparents now, exhausted and only slept for 50 minutes today. Had an EBT routine start of 5.30pm tonight and asleep by 6pm.
Think she is testing mummy and daddy tonight though as she woke up at 7.25pm, first mantra crying so I stood outside which turned into real upset including tears. Settled her, lasted for 2 minutes and happened again. My OH went in and did the same again and she seems to of dropped of now. Fingers crossed!