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Created a bit of a monster...advice?
« on: May 15, 2012, 18:50:59 pm »
DD2 is so much more efficient at the breast than DD1 ever was that I started giving her a little 'top up' before I put her down to sleep thinking it would help her sleep longer. She has never nursed to sleep, but it is part of our naptime routine. So, basically we have been doing EAESY - and with some success, she's been a good napper and puts herself to sleep when swaddled.

But we're trying to wean the swaddle and I'm going to have to do some sleep training (sigh, I've been super spoiled!). If I'm doing it anyway, I thought I'd try to get her off this second feeding so that I have a bit more freedom. Any tips? Should I just start the day with a really good full feeding and stop with the top-up, or cut back the top-up a few mins at a time (she doesn't eat that long anyway...)? The idea of getting to 4 hr EASY seems pretty remote right now...but should that be my goal? We're just starting to introduce solids but I do BLW so it is likely to be awhile before she's getting significant calories from her solids. She's just turning 6 mos this week and is EBF and pretty much STTN (usually a really long stretch with an early am feeding and back to bed till 7ish, but this swaddle issue is throwing some things off...).

Thanks for any tips.

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Re: Created a bit of a monster...advice?
« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2012, 19:14:39 pm »
Often BF babies don't get to a 4h milk pattern until they're eating a reasonable amount of solids.  If she's indicating to you that she requires milk more frequently, that's not a problem.  After all, EASY is a 'routine', not a schedule. :)
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Re: Created a bit of a monster...advice?
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2012, 23:35:20 pm »
Thanks - I don't think my first got to 4hrs until she was about 8 mos at least, and indeed, had well established her solids eating. I suspect that ending this pre-nap feeding might make it even harder still to get her out of her swaddle. She has been such an easy baby compared to my first because she does so well swaddled...but now that she's so big and strong, keeping her wrapped is just not working.

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Re: Created a bit of a monster...advice?
« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2012, 13:32:30 pm »
If you need some tips on losing the swaddle, I'm sure some of the ladies over on the http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?board=28.0 board would be happy to give some assistance :)
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