LO turned one yesterday, she has never been a great sleeper and all I seem to do all day long is calculating naps, A times, BT times.
It is driving me crazy. We have problem with EW and has for last 4 months. I have tried to extend her first A time to make her sleep longer during the night but she never does more than 10,5 hours during the night and never longer than 1h-1h10 for naps.
Her usual day is as follows:
WU between 5-6
S around 10 ish depending on WU time ( she can last 4h - 4,20)
A 11
S 3-4
BT 7:30
does this sound right? so why EW? Is there any reason for which she cannot do longer naps?
recently she has been waking up during the night and screams for 30-45 min unable to resettle, today woke up at 5 and again screamed for 1 h, then I picked her up. Why I cannot resettle her? She is an independent sleeper, sleeps in her cot, isn't fed to sleep or rocked.
I need some stability, Im at the end of my wits.