Thanks so much! But what kind of tweak? Should I increase A time before nap? Right how he does about 5.5 hrs. If I did 6 hrs he wouldn't go to nap until 130! If he wakes at 3-330 what time would I do bed? He usually hoes in crib at 730 and is asleep at 745/8 ish. Also our routine is after lunch we go right up for nap. I don't want to encourage play I between lunch and nap afraid he'll never settle.