Ok so I cut naps to 1.5 hours morning and an hour in the afternoon. She was still waking but settling quicker e.g. Brief wake at 10 ish but settled with quick cuddle then sleeping till 5, having small feed and going back down easily till 7. Then last 2 nights things have got bad again. She has been waking around midnight and just wide awake for 1-2 hours and then also up for the day just before 6am. She is also having a hard time settling for naps again the past 2 days despite pushing her a times out.
Yesterday:
WU 5.50 fed and put back down, was quiet in cot but did not fall back to sleep
7 up, changed and fed other side
8 breakfast
9 tried for nap as seemed very tired, didn't settle, lots of moaning and rolling around then crying, didn't calm down at all when picked up, after 20 mins I gave her the dummy which we don't usually use and she settled at 9.20 and slept 1.5 hours
11.45 lunch
2 pm milk bf both sides
2.25 fell asleep in car coming back from childminders, I transferred to cot, she fussed for a few seconds then settled and slept till 3.30 I went in to wake her but had just woken up
5 dinner
6.15 bath
6.30 milk bf both sides
Put to bed at 7, again moaned then cried, DH did brief PU and then when PD she settled at 7.15
Moaned briefly at 11.45 but then settled.
NW 12.35 crying, didn't settle when picked up so I fed her and put back in cot, she was quiet for half an hour but could hear her fiddling with muslin and cot bars, then starting moaning, picked up briefly and tucked her back in she then wriggled around for about half an hour before falling asleep just after 2. Then woke for the day at 5.50 (usually 7!)
She was at the childminders for 2 hours yesterday and wasn't very happy, she cried twice for a few minutes and only smiled once. Usually she is very content and smiling/laughing, rarely cries. When I returned she moaned at me for a minute but then by the time we got out to the car she was kicking and laughing. Today she will be there for 4 hours before I'm back to work next week. She's still desperate to crawl, is rolling all over the place and has just learnt to sit from lying down. There's so much going on that I think a lot of it is developmental and I'm unsure how much to change her routine by. Any advice welcome.