All sounds very normal to me, but keep on asking! We are all learning together
. If the DF isn't working for you at the moment you can just leave it (I never did it with my two, just fed when they woke) or re-try in a few weeks time
. The timing can really help too - usually DF would be between 10-11pm for a 7/7.30 BT so you may need to try later if your BT is later....but that's kind of when he's waking anyway so I'd be inclined to leave it for now. Are you trying a cluster feed before bed?