I really want to try the pat/shhh method with my 1 month old son. But, the front rail on his crib does not lower and so it gives me a HUGE back ache (and hurts my c-section incision) to lean over his crib rail for 10 minutes while patting/shhhing him. Any suggestions on how to modify this? I thought of maybe doing it on the floor or while holding him, but I don't know if that might be too stimulating.
Thank you so much!