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my children were allergic to my breast milk
« on: March 13, 2006, 12:21:45 pm »
my son had these symptoms, eczema generally on the face. Colic like pains and gas, chronic nappy rash. I remember hours of leg exercises trying to expell fluffs to try and settle his pain. $$$ on colic relief which did nothing. At 4 months, with the help of our GP who had had personal experience with food allergies, we found that my son was getting enough traces of food through my breast milk to cause food sensitivity. Undigested food was passing to his gut and fermenting, causing the colic like pain and gas. His faeces was highly acidic which burned his bottom. We tried excluding any possible foods from MY diet, without success. A teary day came when we decided to give up breastfeeding and change to formula. We tried goats formulae and he never looked back. His rashes cleared with a few days to a week. And once his bowels were cleared of the foods he was sensitive to his bowel pains stopped. Only once we started solids did we realise how many things he was sensitive to. Milk, carrots, Mango soya etc etc. His sensitivity built up slowly. My daughter was born and within 12 hours was diagnosed with pneumonia. She had a nasal gastric tube, and was topped up feed with cows formula. Because her system was over loaded with a large volume her symptoms arrrived fast, not gradual like my sons. My diet was again looked at with no success. We put her on Soya milk. My son and now my daughter have both grown out of there food sensitivity. We introduced things gradually back into their diet, as not to over load their little bodies. One doctor told me that he could see no reason why my breast milk would be causing problems with my children as that is the food their meant to have. But I knew that I was right and preferred a happy healthy baby who was bottle feed than a torched baby who was breastfeed. Hope this has helped someone.

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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #1 on: March 13, 2006, 16:47:29 pm »
Glad they are doing better!!  Thanks for sharing!   :)
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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2006, 04:55:24 am »
I find that very interesting!! Good to hear that your GP agreed that your lo's had allergies to your breast milk. As discussed in a different post-from day 1 I have sworn that my dd was allergic to my breast milk but none of the doctors seemed to agree. They all told me to keep breastfeeding....but my dd had all of the same symptoms you listed and when I stopped breastfeeding it was like a different baby we currently have her on a soy as we are meeting with an allergist tommorow. She still has really bad skin rashes on her face but all of her other symptoms got 100% better after I stopped breastfeeding. It seems sometimes like the doctors get caught up in the fact that we are "supposed" to breastfeed and forget that every baby is different. I am just glad to hear that someone else out there has thought what I have always suspected from day1. My hats go off to your doctor!!!

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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #3 on: March 15, 2006, 10:17:31 am »
victoria1, I hope everything goes well with your specialist appointment. My doctor was great, but I also got a lot of negative reactions from different health care professionals. Which, with all the worrying a mother does when she has a sick baby, is the last thing a family needs. I don't think without that doctors support would i've been able to make the dicission of giving up breastfeeding, it did break my heart, but from what I can understand, you can see the improvements which make it a worthwhile desicion, ( Plus now the dads have no exscuss for not helping with those night feeds1) I'd love to hear how everything goes. Cherrycurls

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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #4 on: March 17, 2006, 06:14:50 am »
So we met with the allergist and the good news is that I have confirmed what her allergies are....wheat, everything to do with milk, eggs, goats milk, dust and dust mites. I am relieved to hear that soy is ok to keep her on because this is what she likes the best. We have been given special cream to help clear her eczema and have been instructed to stop using baby wash/shampoos. We are to use glycerin soap for her body and hair and to use Glaxal Base lotion with no fragrances. As well until her eczema clears up we have been given the ok to give her an antihistamine (Reactin) each day for a week to help reduce the itching. We have made all of these changes are to follow up in 2 weeks to see what to do from here. Already I have noticed a difference with her skin and it has only been 1 and half days!!! So we will see what happens but so far seems good! Oh yeah one last thing suggested by the doctor is that stuffed animals are not good for dust/dust mites so to keep them out of her crib area. Also down filled anything is not good (like bedding, blankets, feather pillows). We do have this in our room not in hers, so we have been advised to keep her off of this!

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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #5 on: March 18, 2006, 06:01:47 am »
I know the intching was bad, because his rash was mainly on his face, well you could imagine. By the end of it he looked like he'd been backed in the sun for a week. We were started on cortisone cream but that wasn't strong enough and had use the middle strenght range. It was a real shock because I dont like using medication exspecially on little ones but you do what you have to do. The worst thing was that people would ask what was going on and the medications he was on, and all you got was horror stories. Some people have to learn to be quiet. Support and love is the best medicine for anyone exspecially a worried mother with good GP support and advise.

I was lucky our kid only had food sensativities, nothing environmental. Their is a difference between food allergies and food sesativities, its a bit complicatied to explain, its to do with immune response etc. Anyway keep me posted maybe we could share sob stories ;D

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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #6 on: March 26, 2006, 03:04:27 am »
My dd also had the same symptoms.  Starting at 2 weeks she became so gassy and by 10 weeks was having explosive poops.  At her 6 week check up I asked the doc (not my regular ped) if she could possibly have reflux as I was confusing the symptoms.  He thought maybe and suggested to bf every 1.5 hour instead of 3.  Well after 1/2 a day I thought that was the worst suggestion as it wrecked naps and I was always feeding.  He said if it was lactose intolerance she would be constantly crying, which she wasn't.  She was gassy and would grunt so much that she was popping blood vessels in her eyelids.  It wasn't until the diarrhea and finally seeing my own ped that he suggested to change to lf formula.  Well 3 days was all it took to change my lo.  I maybe could of changed my diet but feeding was no longer going well and I was stressed and tired.  I have had so many people tell me that there isn't lactose in bm, but I disagree.  After all cows don't have milk and they produce lactose as adults. 
Good for your doc to realize that you have to do what is best for your baby and not what everyone else thinks is best.  I wish that I could of bf my lo longer and I miss that but I know that she is better off without it.
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Re: my children were allergic to my breast milk
« Reply #7 on: March 26, 2006, 03:34:14 am »
I also went through this with ds.  Dr.s said he couldn't be allergic to my milk, but I knew something was wrong.  After research on the internet I brought this up at his 1 month appointment and decided to try cutting out dairy, but things only got a little better.  Still had a rash on his face and painful gas, lots of crying.  I had promised myself I would bf for at least 3 months before deciding if I wanted to continue.  This was difficult because bfing was extremely painful for me (also had lactation consultants and nurses say this was impossible, but he was latched correctly.  I have sensitive nipples and he had a strong suck).  But on the 3 month mark he was most of the way on hypoallergenic formula (expensive!!!)  Then soy formula.  I missed bfing him so much, even though it was painful at first, the pain went away and I loved feeding him.  I felt an extreme amount of guilt on both ends.  I felt guilty that my breastmilk was hurting him, and also guilty that I wasn't bfing him anymore.  I feel like it was a sort of post-breastfeeding depression.  He is 6 months now and a happy healthy sweet boy.  Moral of the story - if you think something is wrong, go with your instincts and do some research, even if the medical world says it's "impossible".

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