I never ever thought that motherhood would be so difficult after being a nanny for four years, but nothing had prepared me for the emotional tie in to being a mother. My husband and I discovered The babywhisperer book when Amelie was 6 weeks and she has been on easy ever since. If we ever have a problem it is our bible and we were devasted to learn Tracy had died i felt that i had lost a fantastic friend and mentor, she truely has been a wonderful help through her books and Amelie is the happy although Spirited child because of her.