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Offline jreddy

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11 months and still feeding at night
« on: May 12, 2006, 17:11:53 pm »
Hi everyone

I have an 11 month son who has been formula feed since 1 week old. He has always been a great sleeper in that he goes down at 6.30 on the dot every night without a fuss. He has 2 naps during the day, and generally will go to sleep immediately (may cry for 5 mins but not much more).

He still wakes for a night time feed once or sometimes twice a night. He is genuinely hungry and drinks approx 100ml at a time (which is quite alot for him). He seems to be a good (though not great) eater and eats solids well (mashed up with lumps and finger food). He doesn't have much milk during the day - probably about 150ml. I try and give him snacks which he will occasionally eat. He doesn't seem to eat as much as some babies his age, but he weighs about 23lbs, so is getting enough! He has been on hungry baby formula at night since 5 months.

When he does wake for a feed he will not go back to sleep until he has had his milk, but then goes back down perfectly!

When will he sleep through and what can I do to help him? Not keen on just leaving him to cry as I honestly believe he is hungry, not that he can't get himself back to sleep.

Please - any advice welcome!
Rebecca

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Re: 11 months and still feeding at night
« Reply #1 on: May 12, 2006, 18:01:13 pm »
Just to let you know that we gave a bottle to our son through the night for a long time as well thinking that he was hungry becasue he drank it - but this was not the case - he became accustomed to it.   He would wake up, know that we would come in with the bottle and then go back to sleep after - it was habit.  He was not used to getting back to sleep on his own when he woke in the night.  Once they are on solid foods and eating somewhat well in the day, they do not need that bottle/or 2 at night.
We cut down on the amount each time and also started to water it down until we were almost at nothing.  So if you are at 100ml - cut it down to 80/60/40 every couple nights - and you can add water to water it down.  If you do it gradually, he might not notice.  When you are at next to nothing - just go into the room, lay him back down, say night night and leave.  I don't know if you rock him or does he go so sleep on his own??  With our son, we would lay him down, say still sleepy time and leave, we would then give him time to settle and if he still needed us (crying hard) , we would go back in and do the same thing (wi/wo with pd).  This took about 2 weeks but we finally got him down to sleeping from 7pm-5am, wake, bottle then back to bed till 6:30am.  We then got rid of the 5am bottle by doing the same thing - watering it down, then nothing.  We wanted to move fast, because we were sick of getting up in the night - and I must say we did it for a long time too.  So, we decreased the amounts fast and then just stuck to our guns with the put down, walk in/walk out method and now we have not had night wakings for a bottle in months.  Our son is now 16months old and sleeps 11 hours straight every night.
I would come up with a plan, stick to it and you will see results.  At first it will be hard because he's not getting what he's used to, but after consistently doing the same thing, he will catch on fast.
Good luck :)

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Re: 11 months and still feeding at night
« Reply #2 on: May 12, 2006, 21:52:05 pm »
i agree - i think he's waking out of habit now...

here's a link to a plan that worked for another mommy:
https://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=46907.0

good luck!   :D
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Re: 11 months and still feeding at night
« Reply #3 on: May 12, 2006, 22:23:20 pm »
Hi there I am sorry to hijack, but I too in a similar situation. Gage is 8mths and does the exact same thing except he doesnt get up every night to eat and only eats once. He wakes up like a couple of times a week. We struggle during the day to get him to eat both solids and formula even if he isnt snacking in the night. Would this be considered a habit too? I was thinking how I could implement the weaning plan if he is not waking every night?