i am not sure i have any answers.. but more of the same complaints!!! our lo has been waking up after 40/45 mins.. and sometimes she falls back asleep, but more often than not, she wakes up fussy and things get thrown off!! i do the same thing.. i carry her aroud in the baby bjorn (front carrier) to get her to fall back asleep before the next feeding.. i feel like i am creating bad habits, but i don;t know what to do either! she is clearly exhausted, but not quite hungry yet.. so we would like to know what to do too.. she wants to sleep so badly, (do i let her cry hard for 5 mins? if so, what do you do then?) but on her own she can't seem to do it... any advice?