Hi Stacy,
Thank you for replying.
Actually, I agree with EBF --> sleep time association and I have started to stop that, since I read your reply. Its been hard for both of us, she is struggling as I feel that she has more need to suckle than average babies --- we saw her sucking in my utero, and for me since she cries!.
Actually, I dont want to change anything about her catnaps, I am happy with her 30-45 mins naps and so was she. She was very active, alert and happy before she stopped taking her 5:00pm catnap. I just was not sure what woul happen if I changed her bedtime little early. But yesterday I tried that - putting her bed at 6:30 and it was fine. She got up to feed at 2:30am and then again at 6:30am but I again after feeding her I shhh/pat her to sleep and then woke her up at 7:30am. She did get up couple of times and I again shhh/pat her to sleep. Today monring I thought I would try and see if she will BF again and she did at 7:30am. I put her to nap (without feeding at 9:00am).
I really dont want to reschedule her. she has led me to this schedule and I am happy with it, as long as she is happy. I just watch her sign for tiredness and put her to sleep sometimes is +/- 30mins.
I guess, with her catnaps its not possible to put her to 4-4.5 hours EASY!?! and not even 2-2.5 A time!?!
Thank you once again for your reply.