Zoeymom, it's surely not the best advice, but... maybe you should try different kinds of pacis and then your LO will accept one? I reckon it's better to keep trying with different pacis than ending up as a "human pacifier". what if you just won't be home when it's time for her nap? who will act as the pacifier then
my dd was very reluctant to take a paci as well, but after spending money on many different ones we've finally found the ONE and she likes it now. will only suck on it for naps/night sleep but that's definitely enough and works great for us
HTH
monika