Thanks for checking in on me, I feel like I'm failing miserabley. I can usually get him to sleep between 3 and 20 minutes for the first sleep cycle, but I'm hopeless when it comes to getting him into another 45 minutes. I was trying to do w2s method 1, but it was killing my back and shoulders (he's all over the place with arms, legs etc. once crying himself crazy to begin the nap and I'm afraid to re-swaddle for fear of waking him) so now I just let him wake and try to do shh/pat back to sleep. I've been getting him back to sleep after about 10 minutes of crying, but he only stays asleep for a few minutes, then cries again, sleeps again and cries some more. The periods of sleep get shorter while the crying gets longer. So after about 20 or 30 minutes I get him out of his bed. I figure he's better off with some quiet A time as opposed to screaming all his energy away. Plus I feel like every weekend I regress with a bit of fear that hubby will hate the crying even more than me, but that's my weakness I guess. Some days I feel like it gets better then I slip back into some accidental parenting, desperate to get lo to sleep (ie. feeding to sleep). I don't know why I just can't do it!!! I know that if I persist it will get better, but it just seems like it may take a really long time for us to get the hang of this.