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19 month old sleep problems, Please help UPDATE
« on: March 08, 2007, 18:30:56 pm »
Well, it has been about a month since I have messed with his sleep schedule. The outcome....he goes to bed an hour later and wakes up at the same time. I guess I just have to face the fact that he is up between 4:45 and 5:15 am. I changed his naps to after lunch so he now naps from 12-2 (give or take a 1/2 hr in either direction). He now goes to bed at seven. I am hoping that once we have the time change this week, he may sleep later. Who knows? I may have to keep him up until 8pm to get any change or wait until the spring when he is tired from all the fresh air. I just figured I would post the 'progress' we have had on his early rising. Oh well :( Looks like early bed for me ;)



19 month old sleep problems, Please help
« on: February 06, 2007, 02:54:47 PM » Quote Modify Remove 

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My son definately has his own internal clock! 4:30-4:45 am every morning. I have tried to change it but it never seems to work. I will write down his schedule and if anyone has any suggestions, I would appreciate it.

4:30-4:45 - wakes up, usually lays there talking, playing his music soother and doesnt usually stand up until we come in
5:10-5:30 - we get him out, we will get him out earlier if he is crying (which never has) or if he is really making a lot of noise, like kicking the crib or something
5:30-milk
6:30-7-breakfast
9:30-snack
10-11:30 or 12-nap (sometimes if he is really tired he goes down at 9ish)
12-lunch
3-snack
4:30-5-dinner
6:00-bedtime

I have stretched his naps to 1:00, but that seemed to backfire and he would only sleep for 45 mins and be super cranky all day. I have also stretched his bedtime to 7:30 (the latest) and he still woke up early, more like 5 am though. So, there was a difference but not much at all. Plus, he would end up napping for a longer period of time the day after or two days after we streched his bedtime. Seems it caught up with him. Am I supposed to keep him up until 1 every day and 7:30 at night for a few weeks even thought he is very cranky? I have no idea. Also, I am hoping that once it is spring, and we are able to be outside this will change, but I am not expecting it seeing he has always woken up by 5 am since he was a baby. Is it possible that him in his crib awake in the morning for the extra time is hurting my efforts? Would he be more tired if i got up right when he gets up and start the day? I have had people say how great it is to be able to have time at night with my husband seeing he goes to bed so early, but I am in bed 8 usually and would rather have time as a family because my husband only sees him for a 1/2 hour at night and not be so tired every day. I hope someone has the answer   Please help....
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Re: 19 month old sleep problems, Please help UPDATE
« Reply #1 on: March 08, 2007, 19:14:09 pm »
i wonder if its worth offering a catnap say around 9am and then another nap around 1pm.i think he is still over tired as he is doing 6.5hrs b4 nap and 6hrs after nap.

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Re: 19 month old sleep problems, Please help UPDATE
« Reply #2 on: March 08, 2007, 19:49:18 pm »
i would agree, I dont think 2 hrs daysleep is really enough, any chance of extending?

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Re: 19 month old sleep problems, Please help UPDATE
« Reply #3 on: March 09, 2007, 16:47:42 pm »
Hi,

I have heard of something called Advanced Sleep Phase Syndrome/Disorder.  Sounds like this could be it, if he is going to sleep and sleeping through.
One of the sites I saw (and can't find it now) suggested moving nap/bedtime back VERY gradually, like in 10 15 minute increments every few days so as to not result in overtiredness. (maybe if you moved it an hour all at once it was too much?)


You may want to google it and see if you can find anything.  I don't know your history, so sorry if this doesn't seem applicable.

good luck to you.  There have been a couple of other posters with the same issue...it's a toughy for sure!

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Re: 19 month old sleep problems, Please help UPDATE
« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2007, 16:48:52 pm »
I have tried two naps but he wouldnt sleep. He would just cry and cry. I am happy to report that today he slept until 7am!!! First time ever!!! Now, I know it has everything to do with the time change, but I will take it :) I was of course laying in bed awake at 5 waiting for him to wake up! I am hoping that he keeps it up. He actually got up at 6 yesterday, fell asleep for his nap at 1 and then had bedtime at 7:30. I dont want to read too much into it yet because I am sure he will adjust and be up at  5 again, but this could be what was needed. (crossing my fingers)

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Re: 19 month old sleep problems, Please help UPDATE
« Reply #5 on: March 12, 2007, 19:16:54 pm »
crossing fingers for u!