Hey Kristi,
Yah, everything we've been hearing everywhere had me wondering too.
I guess I've always thought, that I use AJ's cues to establish a routine, so I have a rough guidlen for the day. I love being able to type up a 'schedule' for daycare, but she knows that she can stray. It's not there to watch the clock, it's so that someone else watching my baby knows what normally happens around those times. The times came from me watching his cues. His routines change over time because he's getting older and his needs change. From 10-13 months, I couldn't type up a routine for daycare because AJ was changing his awake times about once a week.
-Finally, now, he's established. He is tired for a nap at roughly 12:30 every day.
-BTW, a month ago or so, when AJ was moving into the 2-1 switch, I knew, no matter what, and even still now, that if I put him to bed at 10:30am, even though he doesn't show any cues, he would go down for a morning nap. However, the problem for me came at afternoon nap time. He stopped taking them. He wouldn't settle. I tried again to see if he was ready for one and lo and behold it's great now.
-Anyhow, I guess my point/curiousity, was that I always felt that the cues were used to create the routine. The rough plan/goal for the day.
-I hope everything gets ironed out for Kubko's day.
Stacy, great advice.
Sonja C