Ok so we finally got our LO to go down at night with no cry it out:) which is GREAT. Some nights she has gone with only 1-2 feeds until 705am. However, lately (she is almost 17 weeks) she is up constantly at night. Here is our schedule now:
705 am wake and feed (so odd, but usually it is 705am on the nose that she is ready to the start the day)
830am Nap (usually 45 mins or so - swaddle)
11pm breast feed
12pm Nap (usually 45 mins sometimes 1-2 hours - swaddle)
3pm Breast Feed
430/5pm Short Nap (sometimes swaddle, depends)
7pm Night routine (massage, stories, Breast Feed, swaddle, kiss goodnight and say the same things every night "mommy and dad love you, etc. etc.)
7:30 Asleep (then she wakes usually at 1130/12am and 330am)
However, last night and almost all last week, after her first wake up at 1130pm/12am - she wakes a TON (145am, 230am, 330am (then I feed), 4am, 445am, 515am and on and on....). She does not seem hungry when she wakes, she seems often that she is not liking her swaddle (if she has not escaped it which often she has. Usually I can rock her/comfort her/put binky in and she will go back to sleep, but then is up again in no time. I had thought perhaps no swaddle and no binky training so she could soothe herself, but she really cannot sleep that way - she cries and cries and I just cannot let her do that. Lately I take her to the guest room around 5pm for a 1-2 more hours sleep.
She has not rolled over yet and in my parent group someone suggested she may be ready for that milestone and that is why this is happening, but I am not so sure.
OOHHH and I need to note: she only eats for TEN MINUTES! Yes TEN! I try to keep her focused, we eat in the same room/place each time but she pulls off and is NOT interested in more. She cries if I try to get her back on and seems content/fine until her next feeding. In fact, most often she does not get super fussy to eat - just when tired.
Thoughts?
