I really want to do the EASY routine, but I find it to be bothersome and consuming my life. It is all I can think of. I don't want people to visit because they interfere, I don't even want grandparents interacting because it will interfere. All I think about is feeding and napping and whether or not I am failing according to the word of the whisperer. I just don't know how you adjust your life to this. The four s's is impossible and I just want to know how to utilize this and actually make it work.