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Starting BLW with a gagger
« on: December 06, 2007, 14:47:13 pm »
I'm very interested in BLW however since we started our large 5 month old DS on pureed solids already I'm wondering how to transition him into a Baby-led approach now or even if its possible.  Also, I've notice he has an easy gag reflex and even coughs up blueberry skins!  Will he outgrow this soon or I'm I going to have to post-pone finger foods.  I am anxious to try him on real food since the puree route is quite inconvenient.  I feel I spend more time preparing his food than anything else (since i refuse to buy jarred baby food).

Any advice is greatly appreciated.  I hope I haven't surpassed the prime time for BLW and now since he's had purees that he won't accept handling his own food.


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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #1 on: December 06, 2007, 18:14:30 pm »
I would suggest, giving him some finger foods to try before purees.  Alice gagged at everything for ages.  Then all of a sudden it kicked in and she just swallowed her food.  Try to relax about it and it will come.  It might take weeks (did with Alice) or it might take days, just depends on your baby.  I would say as you've only started he's more than likely not got entrenched into an eating habit.  I agree with you that it is much more convenient and I love eating with her rather than feeding her.  Everyone on the BLW thread will give you advice too.  This will help you to get started.

https://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=92560.0

Don't worry about the skins, Alice always sucks round the skins and spits them out.  Even the fibrous bit in the middle of parsnips she spits out. 

Go for it, you can only give it a go. 

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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #2 on: December 06, 2007, 21:35:32 pm »
Jake gagged equally as much on the pureed stuff as the finger foods. The link is not showing up Pauline!

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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #3 on: December 06, 2007, 21:52:59 pm »
How are we meant to attach links these days?  Thanks lovedtodeath.
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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #4 on: December 06, 2007, 22:03:31 pm »
Have done it for you sweetie! :-* You click on the hyperlink button which is the 3rd one in above the colour line, and paste the copied link code in twice and it'll appear for you!

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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #5 on: December 06, 2007, 23:32:14 pm »
My lo gagged so easy, I couldn't believe it.  I started with Cheerios for finger foods and she would gag and vomit, she got to where she would gag when I showed her a Cheerio, it was kind of funny, well if I hadn't been so worried that she would never be able to eat.  I just started mashing things with a fork instead of pureeing them, then cutting into tiny bites, then small, then bigger.  She is still picky about texture, if she doesn't like the texture of something she just opens her mouth and lets it fall out.  But I keep giving her things even if she hasn't liked it before and somethings she has changed her mind about, like cooked carrots as long as they haven't been cooked to long.  So don't give up, he'll get the hang of it, some of it also might be his age, maybe try when he is a month or two older. 
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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #6 on: December 07, 2007, 04:38:37 am »
oh, just a thought...both of my LO did less gagging with raw fruit. Pears, peaches, plums...the whole fruit in their hands. Doesn't really make sense, but that's it!
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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #7 on: December 07, 2007, 15:14:19 pm »
thanks for all ur info! We're trying to have dinner together now so that our lo can watch us eating too. Yesterday he tried knawing on garlic bread for the first time and seemed to really enjoy it.  he didnt gag at it and i think it's because he's in control.  We'll take it slowly and let you know in a few weeks.

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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #8 on: December 10, 2007, 22:08:52 pm »
That sounds really positive.  If you find he's having difficulty mashing it up, then give him something a bit softer.  Sounds like he's doing really well though.  Hope to hear much positiveness from you soon.  Why don't you join us on the BLW thread (we're on to number 3 now).

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Re: Starting BLW with a gagger
« Reply #9 on: December 11, 2007, 14:26:43 pm »
we're still doing a mix of puree and finger foods. not much of the finger foods is getting into his mouth but he's being quite entertained with it which allows us to eat more casually and not so rushy since before he'd get frustrated in the high chair.

i'll pop into the BLW thread soon, thanx for reminding me.