Katt- almost afraid to type this, but I put her in her crib and walked out tonight. It's about 20 mins later, and I haven't heard much complaining.
Laura- thanks for the Millpond info. I sent them an e-mail about our situation. I extended the nap by WI/PD and a little head rub. I waited til she went b2s to leave the room. No nap today for O, besides the catnap in the car?
Nicola- I had been moving closer to the door (in fact I was AT the door), but yesterday as soon as I left, she went nuts. But see my comment above to Katt- I hope I'm not jinxing myself.
This is counterintuitive, but last night she went to bed later (5:50pm) and though had 1 NW, she slept later this morning (5:50am). I know I shouldn't increase A time with such OT, but the later wakeup would definitely help the nap length I think. Too risky?