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Offline NicElua

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Starting all over again?!
« on: May 28, 2008, 13:27:34 pm »
Hi All,

I'm not very sure where I should be putting in my post but I'll still try it here anyway.

My LO has just turned 12mths old. I had planned to start teaching him to sleep independently aft his first birthday. I had thought about doing it earlier. However our travel plans back then would have disrupted the teaching. now that we are back home I have loads of other issues to cope with as well. Just need some advice from some of you on the following:

Due to us travelling to a different time zone for 3 weeks, LO's routine had been turned topsy turvy. It took me a few days to get him back on track. Generally, the meal times and bedtime + wake up time (in the morning) have returned to before. However, the naps are bad. On some days, LO would nap twice a day. on others only once. When he napped once, he napped straight after lunch. He would usually be tired around 11am but it's too close to his lunch. So i would feed him first and let him nap after. The problem is that he gets tired again very close to dinnertime (around 4-5pm). If i let him sleep, his bedtime would be delayed. I'm really not sure how I should manage this because i really don't wish to get him overtired. Neither do i wish to deal with a cranky tod.

The other question is this: with the routine still out of place, should I even attempt to sleep train him? LO is pulling to stand a lot now and I noticed some signs of cruising (very tentative). I'm not sure if this would hinder the training. If I do give him enough practice during the day, would that help or hinder?

Thanks in advance!
Nic



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Re: Starting all over again?!
« Reply #1 on: May 28, 2008, 13:29:02 pm »
Hello! As your lo just turned 12 months, I am moving this to Toddler Sleep so you get more specific advice  :-*
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Re: Starting all over again?!
« Reply #2 on: May 28, 2008, 13:31:56 pm »
thanks Angela....incidentally, my son's name is Joshua too :)
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Re: Starting all over again?!
« Reply #3 on: May 28, 2008, 13:35:44 pm »
Obviously, we have taste  ;D
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