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anybody else w/ a lo that always fusses before naps?
« on: May 23, 2008, 20:22:25 pm »
i have a 10 month old that used to nap beautifully, but lately he won't settle for naps w/o fussing first.  i hate to hear him fussing and crying.  i usually go in after 5 minutes, shh/pat, etc, leave, go in after 10 minutes and repeat this process.  usually w/in 15 minutes he's asleep, but i HATE that he has to fuss before going to sleep.  we do a long wind down routine of closing the blinds, diaper change in the dark w/ some soft lullaby's playing, reading, rocking and then i put him in his crib while he is still awake.  he'll usually talk for a few minutes, but then it turns to fussing and sometimes all out crying and then w/in 5-10 minutes he's usually settled down.  he has in the past 3 weeks learned to crawl, sit and pull up to standing so i think that is interfering w/ his ability to lay there still and fall asleep.  i watch him on the video monitor and he just rolls around or crawls to all the corners of the crib trying to get comfortable.  i was just curious if any other moms are having fussing issues w/ their babies.  will this end or should i just expect a fight from here on out?  once he falls asleep, the naps are still good...an 1-1.5 twice a day.  just curious. 


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Re: anybody else w/ a lo that always fusses before naps?
« Reply #1 on: May 24, 2008, 13:45:03 pm »
Is it possible that he is overtired?  Mine seems to do that when she's overtired.  DS too. 

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Re: anybody else w/ a lo that always fusses before naps?
« Reply #2 on: May 26, 2008, 14:08:14 pm »
yup,  i hear you.  i hate it as well, i try to out of ear shot or keep busy (check the boards) until he has finally fallen asleep.  he started doing this since he has been able to move around in his crib, crawling, pulling up etc. before then he would fall asleep almost the second his head hit the mattress.
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Re: anybody else w/ a lo that always fusses before naps?
« Reply #3 on: May 27, 2008, 22:40:36 pm »
Maybe the wind down is too long?  My DD2 will not tolerate anything more than swaddling and closing the blinds or she fusses.  I'd experiment with that.  Also, he is getting to the age where they start to make the transition to 1 nap.  Not saying he's there yet, but there's a link about it here: https://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=95670.0  The fussing can be caused by OT, so if you want to post your routine we cold certainly take a look.

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Re: anybody else w/ a lo that always fusses before naps?
« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2008, 20:03:03 pm »
it seems that we have moved past this and now my lo is back to just talking and playing with an occasional minor fuss before he falls asleep.  i hope that was just a phase like most of the rest of the past 10 months have been.  thanks for your suggestions. 

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Re: anybody else w/ a lo that always fusses before naps?
« Reply #5 on: June 03, 2008, 20:36:26 pm »
Babyhood is really just a series of phases, isn't it! ;D  I gotta keep that in mind!  Glad to hear things are better!
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