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Any Benefits To Night Feeding At 1 Year?
« on: June 30, 2008, 06:42:28 am »
Dan is coming up for a year and I'm still feeding at least twice a night. Are there any benfits to this or is it something he is used to now? I've just realised what a numpty question that is.  ::)

I'm trying to bump his calories up but I'm thinking that if he's feeding a lot during the night he isn;t going to feed as much during the day. And he doesn't really eat that much. Maybe one just cancels out the other. I'M rambling now. Been up since 6 and none of the others slept through and I'm tired.
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Re: Any Benefits To Night Feeding At 1 Year?
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2008, 06:49:43 am »
i rem asking myself the same thing....can you try not feeding for 3 days, see how he reacts and maybe just going back to it if necessary?

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Re: Any Benefits To Night Feeding At 1 Year?
« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2008, 06:57:08 am »
I am no expert but Sophie from about 4 months got into the habit of night feeds, and I, being lazy just let her (her feeds, day or night, were all very short,  or 10 mins at the most, from birth). And we were becoming co-sleepers. It was only last months when DH and I were going away for 2 nights by ourselves that I got her to drink a bottle, and it took me so long that I put her entirely on bottles, because otherwise she seemed to take more at night IYKWIM. When we came back I gave her a few feeds, but I decided not to start up again because it had been so hard to get her to take more than 2 or 4 oz (she still takes probably a bit less than she should TBH).
Anyway, the point of this rambling is that I think that with bf it's very easy to feed at night for a lot longer than they need to, which is fine in itself if you don't mind, but in Sophie's case I think it was causing her to wake up more than she ever did as a small baby.
Plus at 1 I would be longing to put her on 'real' (LOL) milk from a carton! Is that what you intend?

My DS2 had reflux and wouldn't eat although gained 'okay' weight, not great. I got very tired of sitting in front of a clamped shut mouth with a spoon in my hand, and I know he would have had milk in preference to food any day, still would, I'd say. Sophie is the opposite, all she wants is red meat!
I hope someone with more expertise and less rambling replies soon!
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Re: Any Benefits To Night Feeding At 1 Year?
« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2008, 06:58:26 am »
Feeding at night at one year and beyond may some benefits - feeds may sometimes be 'better' as baby is free from distractions or siblings. Mum may be more relaxed and able to take her time. There are also benefits to a mum's supply to have increased breast stimulation with no long intervals. There is also an emotional/ comfort dimension.
However as you say in some cases it may mean reduced calories in the day. It will mean broken sleep for mum which has wider implications. It can mean the breast develops as a sleep prop.

I think the main thing is - is it working for you? If a mum is feeding at 12 months and feels positive about it and only feels she should stop because perhaps she 'should' IYKWIM - then why stop? However if there are obviously negative effects and maternals instincts are telling you that this isn't right and something is suffering - then it's time to try and cut back.
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