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Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« on: October 08, 2008, 23:29:22 pm »
Gus is 7 months next week and to be totally honest, we are battling with solids.  He likes rice cereal and sweet potato but that's pretty much it - the problem is that they are quite constipating.  He will occasionally eat zucchini.  Doesn't like pear, cauliflower, parsnips. He seems to prefer jarred food to the ones I make :(   But only likes one particular brand "Earths Best organic".  I am not a fan of jars as I think they all taste the same. I figure if he's going to eat jars, the least he can eat is organic!!!  LOL!

I know that milk is supposed to be their main supply of food for the first year anyway, so I know my milk is enough for him. BUT, obviously, I'd like him to eat some solid food (and something that's not going to bung him up) - I know if he doesn't take some extra calories from solids, then I'm going to be breastfeeding round the clock!  I really don't like giving jars out of principal, I'd much prefer to make my own food (and they are expensive).

Should I wait a bit and try to introduce solids in a couple of weeks or so.  I'd like to continue with the rice and sweet potato as he likes it - but again, don't want to constipate him.

DS# 1 was totally different - he's a "vegaholic" - still - he can't get enough of his veg and fruit!  He took everything first go so this is new territory for me!

He's quite slow in his development compared to a lot of babies the same age - not even close to sitting up yet.  He won't take a bottle either.  I know he's fine though!  Even though he wasn't premature, he was very small at birth (4 pounds 14 ounces) - he sometimes acts as if he's premature!
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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #1 on: October 08, 2008, 23:47:48 pm »
Hey hun, my LO didnt really take to solids until she was well over 9 months!  What im trying to say is please dont worry, he wont starve  :-*  Why dont you try baby cereals, something you can mix the milk with to make it more familiar to him, so its like his milk.
ATM its more about getting used to the feel of solids in his mouth and learning to gum and mash his food in his mouth, rather than getting calories into him.

Honestly sweetie, he will eat more when he's ready....give water with solids to help with constipation, and just wait and see! He will get into them, just let him lead you where his tastes are concerned!  :-*

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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2008, 23:55:37 pm »
Yup, that's pretty much what I thought anyway (my post may not have sounded like that!)  I think I'll hold off for a little while and try again in week or two's time.  He likes baby rice cereal.  My pediatrician doesn't advise any other grains for the first year other than rice.
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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #3 on: October 09, 2008, 02:56:04 am »
We had such problems with rice being constipating, we just got rid of it altogether.  What about BLW?  Have you checked out the thread on that?  Letting him play with chucks of soft foods like avocado or banana, he will eat a bit as he is develpmentally able to and my dd found it FAR more interesting than being spoon fed.
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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #4 on: October 09, 2008, 02:57:46 am »
Sorry, that's "chunks" not chucks.  And our dd was pulling up to stand and trying to cruise before she was sitting up from a lying position, so there's no right or wrong on that business.
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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #5 on: October 09, 2008, 08:58:57 am »
i meant to add that - about BLW...its great and so amazing to watch them!  :-*
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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #6 on: October 09, 2008, 12:37:26 pm »
BLW - I read a bit on that last night.  The thing that scares me is the choking hazard.  Will read more.
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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #7 on: October 09, 2008, 18:50:05 pm »
Come join the http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=126300.0 for reassurance on the choking thing :)

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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #8 on: October 23, 2008, 12:42:15 pm »
Just wanted to chime in - my LO is nearly 9 months and only in the last couple of days has he really got in to the swing of things. He wouldn't eat anything from a spoon until now - so I stopped stressing and just did BLW for a bit so he got the hang of having things in his mouth. I've kept offering things here and there and what do you know - today he demolished rice and bolognese and yogurt!! He's mightily pleased with himself!

So try not to worry - he'll get there.

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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #9 on: October 23, 2008, 13:05:51 pm »
Thats exactly what i did Anna...my LO started showing an interest at 9 months of age but she didnt really get into it until she was nearly a year old!  :o

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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #10 on: October 23, 2008, 23:32:45 pm »
Things have actually improved.  The site went down before I'd had a chance to read the BLW things so I just carried on with purees.  Last week he started to eat the purees (home cooked) without gagging which is great.  He's now eating most veg and a lot of fruit with no problems.  I'll give him another few weeks on veg and fruit before I move onto meat and fish.  I will read the BLW as I'm interested to hear what it's all about.  I gave DS#1 purees for quite a long time as I was paranoid about him choking.  He's a great eater so didn't do him any harm thank goodness!
Anyway, all good - I figure he wasn't probably ready at 6 months (even though he showed great interest in anyone that was eating!) - he's pretty slow on everything on the development front - even though he wasn't a preemie by dates he was by size, he's about a month behind on most things (he was only 4 pounds 14 ounces full term).

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Re: Doesn't like solids - is it a problem!
« Reply #11 on: October 24, 2008, 03:26:38 am »
Check this website out for a great idea for feeding lo's.  Gives a new dimension to BLW.   ;D ;D

I think there are some pictures around of **Clare**'s son using one.  He looks really pleased with himself.

Hope things are going well, we'll be there in about 3 weeks time.  OMG!!

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