I had to stop cold turkey from feeding my 3mo DS, who is a big boy. I have a good milk supply and after many trips to pediatrician and allergies, reflux, surgery etc I cant do it anymore at the thought of changing my diet dramatically. I know its kind of selfish but I just cant cope and I need to take care of myself. So that said - He is very easy to the bottle seen as though he is used to having a bottle here and there and again he's a big hungry boy. The problem is my breasts! Im so engorged I cant even hold him. I have tried cabbage in my bra, ice packs, painkiller (ibprofen) and I'm not sure about pumping, I had to pump last night twice because I couldnt sleep, but pumping is not really allowing any relief as i fill back up so quickly. Anyone share there experience with this?? How long will it take and, Im so damn sore - help...