Author Topic: How do I get my baby to sleep 12 hrs at night versus 10 or 11? EWs issue  (Read 879 times)

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Offline saltyqueen

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My daughter has been a fairly consistent 11-(sometimes less)-hours-of-sleep-a-night baby. The main problem I have with this is that her 13 or more hour day that is the result of her 10 or 11 hour night's sleep may be what is causing her early wakings??

It doesn't matter if she goes to bed early or goes to bed later, the awake time doesn't change much. Her bedtime changes depending on her catnap. If she refuses to catnap, then we get her to bed super-early, sometimes as early as 6 PM. If she does catnap, then she'll go to sleep later - anytime between 6:30 and 7:30 on average - but her wake up time remains usually between 5 and 5:30. I've noticed that when she does get in a catnap that getting her to bed after that is often challenging. I think the catnap may throw off the natural rhythm that would be in place if she were awake for only 12 hours total during the day. Does that make sense? In other words, if she were awake only 12 hours during the day, she wouldnt' need the catnap. She'd be able to make it to her bedtime.

So please tell me how to change this pattern. I feel like there must be some solution that I'm overlooking. Here are 2 sample days' schedules. These days ran back to back chronologically. I am beginning the first day's schedule with the time she went to bed the night before:

bedtime the night before: 6:15 PM
wake up: 4:55 AM
first nap: 7:45 to 9:10
second nap: 11:55 to 1:30
catnap: 4:20 to 4:55
bedtime: 7:00 PM

wake up: 5:30 AM
first nap 8:10 to 10:20
second nap 1:05 to 2:20
catnap 5:15 to 5:40
bedtime 7:30 (would have been earlier but she wouldn't settle down and sleep)

Sorry for such a  lenghty post. If you have any input for me, I'd really appreciate it!!!!


 
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Hi, how old is your LO  :-*



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6 months and 2 weeks old. Thanks!!!

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yeah..a friend told me to do away with the catnap and she will settle better at nite...I tried this last nite and my LO went from 3pm to 6.45 without having catnap and she fell half asleep while feeding and settled down so lovely in her cot...... :o

but I still think its madness cos she was so moody all afternoon so surely this isnt good for her??....

my LO is 17 wks so surely this much A is scarily too much.....its so confusing??? ???

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It IS so confusing, Annette! I wish I knew how to handle it. Let me know if you figure it out, ok?

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I find my lo sleeps longer at night if he goes to bed earlier - last night he did 6pm - 6.30am but usually he does 6.30/45pm - 6am and occasionally earlier!
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Hiya,
If you crack this problem would you please, please, pretty please let me in on the secret! My girl (5mths old) has a similar routine, sometimes she's in bed for 6pm if she misses the catnap (happens occasionally because she will only realy sleep in her cot so when I do go out I do it at catnap time and hope she sleeps in the pram/car) or sometimes bedtime is 7.30 if she does nap. No matter what, she is up with the birds at 4.30 - 5am. Even when she was tiny and was waking for feeds in the night she would never sleep 12hrs. I'm green with envy at my friends who have babies that sleep 7 - 7.

I'm just hoping that it's coz it's summer and keeping my fingers crossed it will get better in winter.
Carrie

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Ok, I do think she is a bit OT.    I think is awake time might be a bit long for her age.  I will aim for 2-2.5h initially and then start extending the nap.  She still needs 2 naps of 1.5-2h and a catnap and 10-12h at night. You may want to try shh/pat or pu/pd to try and extend those naps.This is a 4h EASY that can be used as a guideline:

7am wake
9am  sleep (1.5-2h)
1pm sleep (1.5-2h)
Between 5-6 catnap of 40ish min to get through supper and bath time
7.30pm bed
11.00pm dreamfeed (until 7-8 months or when solid food is firmly established

Here is a link that you may find useful http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=87109.0

HTH  :-*