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Extreme SA during NWs - teething - help?
« on: July 09, 2009, 08:25:12 am »
Stan's lower eye teeth/canines are coming through and are giving him much more trouble than any other teeth. He has been waking in the night with them. When he wakes, I top him up with pain meds if it's time, then try to start WIWO. But he just gets, and stays, frantic. When I lay him down he desperately grabs at my hands/arms to try and hold on to me to make me stay with him. He sobs 'hand! hand!' for me to hold his hand. If I try GW, he will not let me let go of his hand, and if I stay right there with a hand on him, once he calms down he then tries to engage me in conversation/play.

For 3 nights, his Dad has managed to get him back to sleep in 10 mins, where I have taken 45 mins and failed. His Dad goes in, picks him up and gives him a cuddle, reassures him (Stan's going to sleep, mummy and daddy are going to sleep, we'll all see each other in the morning), turns on his lullabies and lays him down in his cot. It's a complete no-no for me to try to do the same thing, as soon as I stand up to put Stan in his cot, he starts shouting 'Chair! chair!' for me to sit back down and screaming when I lay him down.

What do you think? The points of the teeth are through so maybe won't be too much longer that they're messing up our nights. Should I stick with WIWO? Get DH to deal with the NWs (even though he's picking up)?





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Re: Extreme SA during NWs - teething - help?
« Reply #1 on: July 09, 2009, 11:16:03 am »
Huge hugs Anna, we are going through a similar situation, I have just started a new thread in TS too. :-*
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Re: Extreme SA during NWs - teething - help?
« Reply #2 on: July 09, 2009, 11:45:52 am »
huge hugs Anna.

For teething this is a very similar situation for us too.  DH is now on permanent NW duty for the very same reason,   J just won't go straight back to sleep for me, he seems to need me there for ages and it actually interferes with him getting back to sleep. 

If DH goes in, he's out of there in 5 mins max and J goes back to sleep.


On the rare occasion that I do go in, I get in and out as quick as possible, armed with two dummy's , and bonjela on my finger.  Rub it in to his gum first, that's a distraction in itself, plug the dummy and quick pat and get out of there.  He always hollers, if he continues to cry for a few mins I send DH in.  Sometimes I get out on the first go.

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Re: Extreme SA during NWs - teething - help?
« Reply #3 on: July 09, 2009, 22:28:36 pm »
(((((hugs))))) Paula, wish I could say something helpful!!!

Eloise, agreed with DH that for the time being, we're going to follow your protocol for NWs. I'll go in first, with bonjela and pain meds (if it's been long enough since the last dose), for a quick resettle. Anything after that will be dealt with by daddy - we should all get some more sleep that way.

He woke at 9.30pm but instantly resettled - think he just misplaced his lovey.

I posted a link on Paula's thread about all the developmental leaps they've got going on - with the teething as well, it's no wonder they're all going crazy.

*sighs* only 4 more teeth to go.





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Re: Extreme SA during NWs - teething - help?
« Reply #4 on: July 10, 2009, 02:49:53 am »
extra sighs..

 its excrutiatingly slow this teething business...  although can I say that we just got another tooth this week, (an upper canine!) the first one he has ever got without us "knowing" that was teething.  There is stilll hope for a RELATIVELY pain free teething episode.

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Re: Extreme SA during NWs - teething - help?
« Reply #5 on: July 10, 2009, 13:56:11 pm »
More hugs Anna,

That link has so much information on it.  Thanks for posting it.

I agree with you only 4 more to go.  Hears hoping they come through really quickly.

Eloise, great news on the canine - hope the rest come through as painlessly.
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