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Early Waker getting Earlier and Earlier
« on: October 25, 2009, 03:22:38 am »
Hello to all the wonderful moms out there :)

My DD has just turned 6 months and 1 week. We recently unswaddled her and she has learned how to transition from being swaddled to unswaddled during sleep but I've noticed that this past month she has been waking earlier and earlier in the a.m. She doesn't cry, just plays and talks to herself for the entire morning until my husband or I can get out of bed around 6:15 or so, but her wakings are getting even earlier now, sometimes 4:50 a.m.!

When she wakes before 6 a.m., I usually nurse her and put her back to sleep; however, where she used to fall right back asleep, sometimes she wakes up when I set her back into the crib and it may take her an hour or so to fall asleep. If she does fall back asleep right away after nursing her at 4 a.m or so, she would used to go back to sleep until 7 a.m. but now wakes at 5:30. She doesn't fall into a deep sleep anymore until 7 a.m., rather, she will wake and sleep and wake and sleep until we get her at 6 a.m. or even 5:30 sometimes...This has made for a very sleep deprived mommy =).

The problem is that because she wakes so early, I have to take this into consideration when putting her down for her morning nap. When she used to wake at 7 a.m., I could put her down at 9 am and she would have a nice 2 hour nap. But now if she wakes at 5:30 a.m., I need to put her down at 7:30 a.m. or else she will have a horrible nap and wake up after 45 minutes! The problem is is that this makes for a very weird day because everything is pushed earlier so I end up putting her to bed by 6 a.m. at the latest in order to prevent her from being OT by bedtime.

Here is my EASY schedule when she wakes early:

Awake: 5:30 (let her play in her crib)
E and A: 6:30-7:30 a.m.
S: 7:45-9:30 (we put her down at 7:45 because she has been up since 5:30. I thought that I didn't need to take her A time in crib into consideration, but she will be OT if I don't take it into consideration as part of her overall A time)

E and A: 10:00-11:30
S:11:45-1:45 (on most days. Some days she has 45 minute naps)

E and A: 2:00-4:30
S: 4:45-5:15 (approximately but she always takes a 30 minute catnap)

Eat, shower, bed: 5:15-6:30. (bedtime is usually by 6 or 6:30 because she has such an early wake)

I would apprecaite any insight you can give me. I am so tired and always sick because I don't get enough rest. She used to sleep until 4 a.m., but now she wakes at midnight and at 3 a.m. or 4 a.m. and then at 5:30 so I feel like I am always waking. We are starting her on solids this week so hopefully that will help sustain her.

Thank you so much!!!
Christine

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Re: Early Waker getting Earlier and Earlier
« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2009, 17:22:24 pm »
Hi again Christine,

I know you have been having some sleep issues with your LO.  Maybe you first what to have a look at this link to see if you get any ideas
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=87109.0

what worked a month agao may not work now, so you need to constantly tweak her routine.  I do think that she may be ready to start pushing her A time to maybe 2.5h or so

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Re: Early Waker getting Earlier and Earlier
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2009, 18:32:06 pm »
Thank you Elmarie. I appreciate your link. I will try pushing her A time. Thanks!
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Re: Early Waker getting Earlier and Earlier
« Reply #3 on: October 30, 2009, 02:36:25 am »
Hi Elmarie,

With your good advice my husband and I have been pushing DD's A time to 2.5 hours now that she is 6 months and 2 weeks. She has also started solids, which she absolutely loves. We have increased her A time for almost a week now and I can't hep but think that there is something else going on, maybe Separation anxiety because in the past she would usually play in her crib or talk to herself and then go down and sleep independently very well but recently every time my husband or I leave the room she starts to cry right away. We usually let her mantra cry for a bit, the most 15 minutes or so and she will nod off to sleep, but lately she's been crying for longer periods of time and then the crying begins to escalate so my husband will go in there and PU/PD. PUPD usually doesn't work very well for naps, since it is such a short time before she needs to eat again. PUPD was used when she was 4 months to teach her how to sleep independently and it worked like a charm. After she learned how to sleep independently, whenever she had a hard time going back to sleep, sometimes my husband or I would hold her for a while, then put her down when she was calm and let her try again. Maybe we became a prop during this time and therefore it's harder for her to go down without us?

Up until she turned 6 months old she would play and talk to herself in the crib and then fall asleep completely on her own but every time I put her down at bedtime now (our bedtime routine has not changed at all), she will cry and scream and for the past 2 nights my husband has been doing PUPD to help her. Last night she woke up every 2 hours all night long! During PUPD she screams and screams horribly and fights going to bed. I'm sure she's a bit OT also because today she had an 1.5 hr nap in the a.m., but for her second nap after being up for 2.5 hours, she didn't go down at all! She cried once we left and I went back in there but couldn't get her to settle before our next E time.

Does this sound like SA? If so, is PUPD appropriate for this? Whenever she cries and I walk back in there she will instantly smile at me and is happy as can be, but the minute I walk out of hte run the screaming begins...

Thank you,
Christine
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Re: Early Waker getting Earlier and Earlier
« Reply #4 on: October 30, 2009, 17:28:35 pm »
Hi Christene,

I'm sorry that you are still having a hard time.  Yes, you are right it does sound like SA.  You can maybe try gradual withdrawal plan.  Here is some info http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=52857.0.  If it is really bad you can use the matress in the room until the anxiety is less.  :-*