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7 week old...naps need work!
« on: December 11, 2009, 01:26:13 am »
Hi guys! Need a bit of help with my EASY, my technique..or something!
A 1.5 to 2 hour nap is a rare thing in my house right now...and Im trying to figure out why this is.
So our easy looks like this on most days:

7am wake, feed
740 change, wind down
800-asleep ( on a fairly good day)

900-910-awake ( I try to get her back down with sh/pat, but she is really absolutely awake...and gets red, hot and sweaty if I continue to try to get her back to sleep. It usually ends in me bringing her downstairs feeding her earlier than planned.
945-1000 feed
1030 change, wind down, she usually is very easy to put down for this nap, so asleep within 10-15 min of when she goes to her crib

130-awake (this is fairly typical for her to sleep thru till the next feed)feed
210-change, wind down
230-asleep

310-320-awake (same thing as the first nap happens, I try to hold her off, but feed her a bit earlier than "planned")
345-400 feed somewhere in this time frame depending on her
415-430-change, wind down try to put her back to sleep but it is extremely difficult to get her down for her cat nap-I sometimes take her for a drive just to she sleeps, so she won't be so tired for bed time. from 3-6 is a loooong time to go for someone so small!!!

600 cluster feed, bath, massage, story
630 feed again
sleep by 700 without a problem--bed times are the easiest thing, which Im happy for.

1030 dream feed

Anytime between 2 & 330 am she wakes for a feed of about 3.5-4 ounces and usually sleeps till 645 or 7
The odd day she might wake up at 5 or 6, but I can usually pat/sh her back to sleep at these times.

So a few questions..I have tried to go in at the 40 min mark to help her transition to the next sleep cycle--has worked once..I am debating trying white noise, or a hair dryer or SOMETHING to help her go past 40 minutes..but am a bit scared to try as Im not 100% sure how to incorporate this??

Also, if your day starts at 645-7 am most days, if there is a night where she is a bit hard to settle after the 2-3am feed, would allowing her to sleep till 8am cause her to be hungry at the "usual" times? ie 10, 1 etc....we had this situation today where she had eaten at 8, but by 10 am she was ready to eat again...??

Any advice is as always, greatly appreciated!!!
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Re: 7 week old...naps need work!
« Reply #1 on: December 11, 2009, 08:34:24 am »
Honestly it sounds like she is doing GREAT! That long second nap is really restorative. It can take a few months before they're consistently able to take longer naps. Re white noise, you would just turn it on when you do your wind-down. An electric fan uses less power than a hairdryer! Or you can download womb sounds or other white noise tracks and play them on repeat on an ipod or similar. Would she take her catnap easier in a sling? I'd be tempted to pop her in a sling or wrap after that 3.45pm feed and wear her in there until bedtime - even if she doesn't nap, she will be relaxed and less stimulated just from being close to you, and might doze on and off.