hi there!
For breakfast, I give her baby mum mums, and then mix her oatmeal (you can put as much or as little as you want - this way you can control the texture!) with fruits (puree or mashed up is fine). for lunch I give her chicken (I used a blender and grounded it) and mix it with veggies (puree or roasted) and for dinner I just give her whatever..fruits or veggies.
I know you're nervous, but there's no timeline. take your time introducing some texture. It's a fun experience - if she sees you're apprehensive and anxious then she'll pick up on it.
I also give her things to eat while I feed her so she's occupied. so the baby mum mums for breakfast and a big wedge of apple for lunch and she gums it (she has no teeth either). She knows what she can handle - she used to have a really strong gag reflex and even the smallest amount of texture would set her off. Now she can eat little small balls of apples that she gums off. They'll get more comfortable the more they're exposed to food.
Have you thought of baking some fruits/veggies in some water and mashing it? This may be a good transition.
You can definitely try small pasta pieces. Cheerios.
Chicken/meat - around 8 months
yogurt and cheese - 10-11 months
These recommendations are just to be on the safe side.
HTH!
