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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #15 on: October 29, 2010, 21:02:08 pm »
Maybe he is picking up on your stress?  I know things have been difficult.  Is there any way you can keep "daddy" stress levels down?

What did he nap yesterday?  :-*
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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #16 on: October 30, 2010, 09:08:13 am »
he napped well yday usually 45 mins morning and afternoon, usually bedtime :) but he was up form 1am again on and off every hour, took him in beside me at 4am he woke again at 5.30am give more meds.  i have lost the will today :(

yesterday was stress free daddy day as he turned up on time and had denver home on time :)

would going back to basis work and if so where do i start? my head is all over the place that i just want to cry
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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #17 on: October 30, 2010, 20:43:32 pm »
((((hugs)))) you are doing an amazing job.

I do really believe he is prob OT.  Have you got a free week or so to try and do longer naps at home?  If not have you tried a much ealier bedtime?
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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #18 on: October 31, 2010, 14:23:46 pm »
was at my sisters last night and after awhile he settled as i was able to leave him abit longer as her bedroom isnt next to the living room like it is at mine.  he slept till 7.30am but once clock went back it was 6.30am !!! im starting to think he may be because he can hear me in the living room. 

im going to phone council tomorrow and get pushing for a move before my sanity goes, his dad is staying the night to give me a hand but im hoping this doesnt cause me too much stress as i have to put up with him and he will need to share a bed with me as there is nowhere else to sleep - oh the joys !!!
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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #19 on: October 31, 2010, 21:26:08 pm »
That def is a possibility that it's you waking him ;)  He probably is a light sleeper with everything he has / is going through isn't he?

Good luck with the bed sharing ;) !!
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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #20 on: November 01, 2010, 16:27:58 pm »
he slept all night last night and when his dad put him down he was out like a light within 10 minutes!!! i think his dad thinks im making to all up (sigh)

im hoping he is back on track now.  laura thanks so much for you help :) always appreciated
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Re: I need a plan !
« Reply #21 on: November 01, 2010, 21:41:18 pm »
Good I am pleased :)
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