Hi, sorry to jump in but my 13 week old has also started the 30 minute naps for 3 days now and have only been able to extend the 3pm nap as she's so tired by then.
as usual, after 1hr 15 - 1hr 30 of awake time, i will put her in her sleeping bag-thing and swaddle her, hold her for a little where she's yawning and rubbing her eyes and snuggling. i put her down and she will lie there for as much an hour (sometimes more) awake. sometimes quietly, sometimes blowing bubbles, crying, moaning etc. if she cries, i will go to her and when she sees me, she smiles or laughs or blows more bubbles!!!! i used to be able to stand at the door and say 'shhhh' or 'it's just time to sleep now' but now if i do that she will cry. the shush-pat used to work where she'd fall asleep but now it seems to make her cry hysterically. today, if she couldn't see me i she would cry but if i stood there, she would stop. she sleeps 12 hours at night and a lot of people have said that 'if she sleeps well at night then you shouldn't worry about the day sleep' but she gets so miserable as she's so tired.
we also had 2 visitors today (who were quiet and calm) and when they held her or even came near her she cried but was laughing and normal with us. is this a phase or any ideas how to sort it out?
she's on 3hr - 3h15 easy. (tried to go longer but she's not ready for it)
any ideas will be greatly appreciated
thanks