Hi there!!! It does seem like you're making progress. Have you tried WI/WO? Once she starts getting hysterical, go back to her and reassure her that you'll be there whenever she needs and then walk out and wait outside to listen to her cry. Once she escalates, go back in right away to repeat the process. If you're feeling tired, just sleep next to her cot for the work nights at least and then work at it on the weekend with support from your DP/DH or others. It's tough with so little sleep!!! big hugssss