Thank you so much for replying. I've been so tired I forgot I'd posted! What an idiot I am.
I will definitely look at extending it. I thought because some people were on 3.45 minute feeding routines that because we were on 4 she must be doing the right amount and the activity would extend as she got older. I will look at this.
When she wakes up she plays for a couple of minutes and then crys. She often cries if I turn her lullaby on as she knows I am not going to pick her up, she is going back to sleep.
I thought it was all hunger but last night I went back to feeding her twice in the night and she still woke up like this -
11.30 woke - put back to sleep
12.30 woke - fed her
3.40 woke - fed her
4.55 woke - put back to sleep
6 woke - put back to sleep
7.15 woke - up for day.
So I know some of them are not hunger. It seems to get worse if we go away or do too much. Her sleeping was ok, then I went to stay with my parents for a week and she was bad after that and then she started improving again and then we went to a wedding which was a full on weekend where she didn't really nap properly and then she is back to loads of night wakings. Its been 3 weeks now though so I am not sure if that can still be held responsible or whether it is habit or something I am doing wrong. Her catnap in the evening has been anything between 30mins and 1hour so I will keep that to 30mins - 45 as you suggested to see if that helps. Its so hard as I am getting so tired, but I don't want to complain as I know I am so lucky having a healthy lovely baby girl. Perhaps I will just have to put up with it until she grows out of it. I am going on holiday this friday and am starting to worry about how bad it could get, but I can't not go as its all booked. I am going to buy blackout blinds though and see if that helps in the morning as its so light it isn't really giving my dd the right message. Anyway, thanks for listening and anymore suggestions or adivce would be welcome. I will be remembering I posted this time.