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Offline Nekhbet

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Difficult to resettle
« on: September 23, 2011, 15:50:36 pm »
I'm trying to wean my 12m. DD off feeding to sleep on her resettles. I believe this is the reason she is waking up 2 hourly through the night. She got to point where I wasn't only feeding back to sleep, but having both sides and often waking up when being put down.  Pantlys pull off method is Useless!!!!



 my DD has always been fine going to sleep initially. Take tonight, We did the nighttime routine, patted for a minute or two and left her calm (but a bit restless) to go to sleep by herself. Other nights we pat her to sleep if she is having more trouble, but it takes 15 mins tops and she isnt *too* fussy.

Now, all that changes when she wakes up 3 hours later!  Take tonight, determined not to feed her to sleep (as is the issue) I pat/shushed for 2 hours, before giving in and feeding to sleep. 2.5 hours on a night waking. Last night, 1h 20 mins of pat/shush/ putdown(she went to sleep off the boob and didn't wake until 5am- yea!) .

Routine

Up 630
Food 7
Down 10
Lunch 12
Down 2:30
Dinner 5
Bedroom 7 for sleep 7:30

Not sure how long naps are.

Do I change methods? It works for initial putdown.

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Re: Difficult to resettle
« Reply #1 on: September 24, 2011, 07:14:11 am »
Sorry, initial post is a bit abrupt. Was about 2am after a long resettle. But I would appreciate any help/ideas. Thanks.

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Re: Difficult to resettle
« Reply #2 on: September 24, 2011, 12:13:01 pm »
Hi there...

It does sound like the feeding to sleep has become a prop. You can either gradually reduce the amount/time you are feeding her for or you may decide to go cold turkey & just drop the feed.

There is a big GS at around 12mths old so I would up her calorie intake during the day so that she isn't hungry at night.

She also must be OT if she is waking so regularly at night (which will also be adding to the wakings). How long are her naps during the day?

I've attached a link below for you to read.....once you've done sssh/pat & /or PU/PD to try to get her to settle & they aren't working, then these are the methods suggested to use with LO's over 1 yr old to help them to self-settle at BT &/or NW's.

Does this help?

http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=80750.0
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