I welcome all advice please
Here's the background info. This is my 4th child. All prev 3 didn't i didn't persevere with the paci. i let them give it up early on in the picture. although by #3 i took it away when she was about 2-3 months old. it only took a night or two.
this time, i was more determined that i wanted it, so she cld use it to sooth herself in anyplace, and was fixed on the benefits of the paci.
i did dr ferber on my prev 3 kids. it worked after a few nights. but now this one even though she is really good during day (even with paci can take 1.5 -2 hr naps, although i do have to come back once to put the paci in after i leave her to fall asleep and she whinges a bit) is waking numerous times in middle of night. doesn't need food from 8pm - 5am, but does need the paci put back in.
it is driving me nuts to say the least!! is the whole answer that i have to take away the paci? or is there a way i can get her to sleep uninterrupted WITH the paci??? i am seriously sleep deprived and not coping LOL