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3 1/2 month old suddenly sleeping terribly, please help!
« on: July 14, 2012, 00:45:56 am »
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My baby has recently stopped sleeping well at night. He's never really had a set pattern, but used to sleep about 4-7 hours, then another 3-5, then a couple more before getting up at 7am. He goes to bed around 6:30 or 7pm. He has reflux issues, but it has never really affected his sleep too much. Now he's starting to teethe, but even if I give him tylenol before bed, he still wakes up every 2-3 hours (sometimes every hour). His naps are still pretty normal (35-60 mins each, 4 or 5 times a day), but none of us are getting any sleep at night. He sleeps swaddled, but has recently been breaking out of it & cries when I start wrapping him up. I think he doesn't like feeling constrained, but he can't sleep without being wrapped up. I don't know if that makes a difference. Any advice that anyone can give me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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Re: 3 1/2 month old suddenly sleeping terribly, please help!
« Reply #1 on: July 14, 2012, 01:54:44 am »
Hi sweetie, welcome :)

I'll try to keep the abbreviations out, but let me know if I slip ;)

There are a few things that could be causing your issues:
1. Growth spurt - there's a massive one around 4 months that can last around a week and does involve more night feeds just because baby is growing heaps.
2. Developmental change to sleep patterns - sleep becomes more cyclical and baby goes into lighter sleep and has to learn to make it back to deeper sleep.
3. Discomfort - reflux can flare with teething (get worse) and teething itself can cause sleep disruption. I'm not sure what tylenol is - paracetamol or ibuprofen, but ibuprofen tends to work better with teething. Reflux also tends to get worse around 4 months, so maybe its time to look at controlling it medically. You could have a chat to the lovely ladies over here: http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?board=13.0 about natural ways to keep baby more comfortable too.
4. Day routine leaving him overtired by the end of the day - I think either his naps are short developmentally or because of discomfort - refluxers often have short naps because when they go through the light sleep cycle, they wake and cannot get back to sleep due to the discomfort. How do you go extending his naps? At this age, he should have at least the first awake time up around 1hr50-2hr - that may help with the nap situation or may at least give you an overtired nap that you can resettle more easily so he can get a good restorative nap in first up in the morning - can make the world of difference to the rest of the day in most cases.

He sleeps swaddled, but has recently been breaking out of it & cries when I start wrapping him up. I think he doesn't like feeling constrained, but he can't sleep without being wrapped up.
He may be telling you he's not ready to sleep yet - as in he's undertired... he may also be ready to wean the swaddle - you could try one arm out first rather than going cold turkey.

Now he's starting to teethe, but even if I give him tylenol before bed, he still wakes up every 2-3 hours (sometimes every hour).
This is classic waking due to pain. I really think that you need to take him to the doctor and talk about options for controlling the reflux - no baby is going to sleep while in pain.

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Re: 3 1/2 month old suddenly sleeping terribly, please help!
« Reply #2 on: July 14, 2012, 01:59:36 am »
I just wanted to post this link for you too:
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=65742.0

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Re: 3 1/2 month old suddenly sleeping terribly, please help!
« Reply #3 on: July 14, 2012, 03:35:45 am »
He's taking both prevacid & zantac right now (transitioning off of the zantac, but still on both while he's teething since the reflux is worse). He's been to the pediatrician, as well as a gastrointestinal specialist. They both said that they think it might be related to a dairy sensitivity or could just be reflux, but it isn't severe. I've eliminated dairy to see if that would help (it's been a couple months), but I'm not sure if it's made a difference. I'm going to keep doing it for now.

For the awake times, he usually starts to act tired 45-60 mins after waking up in the morning or after naps. Sometimes he'll make it a little over an hour & other times he seems to want to go back to bed right after he gets up. For nap lengthening, I will give him his paci & apply light pressure to his chest, or sometimes reposition him. It works sometimes, but not others.

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Re: 3 1/2 month old suddenly sleeping terribly, please help!
« Reply #4 on: July 14, 2012, 03:54:10 am »
When were his dosages last checked for weight? The meds are very much weight sensitive...

he seems to want to go back to bed right after he gets up
Would you use this opportunity to lengthen his nap?

I really think his A time does need an increase - just push it gently by 10mins every few days and see how he goes. He  may just need a change of scenery when he starts acting tired - if that perks him up, keep him up, if tired signs persist, put him down for a nap.

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Re: 3 1/2 month old suddenly sleeping terribly, please help!
« Reply #5 on: July 14, 2012, 05:04:13 am »
I asked the GI specialist about his weight & dosages a few days ago & she said that they didn't need to be increased. I want to ask my pediatrician though, because he is 2 lbs heavier than he was when they last upped his dose. Thanks for reminding me :)