No go on extending - I did give it a shot although I can count on the fingers of........well, one finger......how many times I've extended naps in the last 3 months! Got a 1h30 pm nap although it was an OT one despite the length - we were out at lunchtime (couldn't avoid it) and she did a 3h40 A time on that 30 min nap
I've ignored the clock this morning and just followed her cues and put her down really early - hoping she'll take the chance to catch up.