Things have sort of fallen that hamish won't really settle at bed time, naps or in the night for DH. IT's been a combination of factors- basically DH won't 'feel' like doing bed time and then won't want to get up in the night
so i end up doing them all- or most of them. If i'm not there it's ok- but if i am DH does a token effort, then i have to go in. SO- this has to stop!! I am thinking we might wait till christmas when DH is off on teacher's holidays for 5 weeks and doesn't have to get up, and then the pattern will be established. BUT- how do i do it? In the middle of the night say if he wakes- do we just sort of say DH does anything he can to get him to sleep other than get mummy? So hamish is with DH screaming 'MUMMA!' and he just settles him? Thoughts? ideas?
