After many false starts I am ready to do Shhh/Pat consistently. The few times I've tried it seems like my 3 month old would jus get more and more worked up. How long should I do it? It seems like too long and i'm nearing the next E. What if he never falls asleep? Doesn't that just start the OT cycle? FYI...He's used to taking ALL naps on me in a wrap.