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Massive crying fits when going down for a nap at 13w
« on: January 03, 2013, 08:46:13 am »
I'm trying to implement easy for my 13w old son. We used shush pat when he was a newborn to get him to sleep at night and it had worked wonders. We do manage to get him to sleep ok at night but are having a nightmare working out his ideal length of awake time to put him down for a nap. We read about picking up on sleepy cues (rubbing eyes, yawning etc) and listen to his cries and then put him down. Without fail he screams, so we assumed he was OT. We put him down at the very start of the cues  and he still cries, so we put it down to being UT. we go through shush pat at all times, but as soon as we put him down to continue the shush patting, he screams. I'm ok leaving him making grumpy grizzly noises and whiny cries, just not full crying where his face turns red.

Take the morning after eating and awake time, he's giving off sleepy cues after being awake for only an hour. He did the same yesterday but we thought it was too early to put him down but within ten minutes it was full ok OT crying. Today we put him down at the start of the cues and again, get crying and fighting sleep.

He also only naps for about 30 minutes at a time, again, I'm unsure if this is because he's UT or OT.

We are just trying to introduce a 3 hourly easy but its being more of a 2.5 hour easy. As for personality, he's mainly textbook but with a bit of grumpy thrown in.

Has anybody got any advice?

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Re: Massive crying fits when going down for a nap at 13w
« Reply #1 on: January 04, 2013, 14:54:48 pm »
Hi and welcome to the boards

Average a times at his age are 1h20-30min. A times is from eyes open to shut and includes everything as well as wind down and time it takes lo to fall asleep. 30 min naps are classic OT. As your lo is only on 1h a time and seems to fight nap it seems to me he was ut for first nap and has become OT now... You need to push out that first a out. Is he textbook for sleep or grouchy? If latter then only increase in 5min increments till you're getting a restorative nap of 1.5h. If you get short nap then keep next a short too prevent OT accumulating...

Is my baby ready to increase his ‘A’ time? (incl. 'A' times for younger babies)

Also ssh pat is a great tool for teaching IS as long as it doesn't become a prop. You just use it to calm lo and allow lo to ss in cot- it takes time but that's ok. Your lo is so young it'll take time :)

Also bored signs can also be mistaken for tired cues. A quiet change of scenery could help with the extra a time . Hth? xx

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Re: Massive crying fits when going down for a nap at 13w
« Reply #2 on: January 04, 2013, 14:56:32 pm »
Teaching Sleep to Babies of 3-5 months (and the 45 min nap)

Oh forgot to mention could u post your easy as EAS so I can have a better look at what's going on? Thanks
« Last Edit: January 04, 2013, 14:58:58 pm by Aishi »
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