Thank you, iv never really agreed with it and its very difficult when someone is pressuring you when your very exhhausted and desperate!
Sorry yeah i realised i didnt actually put much detail in my first post :p
An average easy day was
E 7am wake and feed
A 7-9:30
S 9:30-11
E 11
A 11-2
S 2-3:30/4
E 4
A 4-7 dinner and bath in this time then
S bed at 7
But no its more like
E wake at 8:30 because of broken night
A 8:30-11:30/12
S 12-2
E 2
A 2-4:30/5
S 4:30-5:15
E dinner at half 5 because its too soon for more milk
A 5:15-7:30
S bed at 7:30
Then she will wake at about 10 then again at about 2 and will be up until 5 am then sleeps til half 8 and because we're both so tired we just cant manage getting up at 7 even though i know its completely throwing our whole routine
Shes always slept really independantly an iv never had to do any kind of settling other than white noise and a dummy and usually if she wakes in the night a dummy is all it takes to settle her. This bottle thing has literally come out of nowhere and i think its come from one night she seemed extra hungry so i gave an extra bottle to settle her one night and its just stuck :(this was only about 1 week ago so its not too badly stuck yet but i can see it getting worse and no matter how much i try to settle her without it i cant. Iv been seriously think about pu/pd but the thing that puts me off is that im doing this completely alone and tracy says in her book to not attempt it on your own but im going to have to. Im just a bit unsure of how to do it properly :/ sorry for the long post just getting very desperate