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10,5 months and get crazy ?
« on: June 07, 2013, 18:58:34 pm »
my angel is 10,5 monthsold he has been sleeping independently for six months with the great help of Katie our heroine :) for nearly one week we have sleep problems . L read about the article about two to one transition and 10 months sleep get bad .l try to restore his easy but l cant manage it because he sleeps very difficult and not enough.when its time to sleep we go into our room say our lullbay then say good sleep and put his into bed then go out he screams a bit ( 1or 2 min.) then speaks himself he sleepsin 5 min. max 10 min. but these days l put the bed then go out he start to scream then cries l wait outside the room but he cant settle then l go in then try to settle him in his bed l put my hand on him and lay him down say its okay but cant settle after 30min. we go out the room and settle him then go in again say the lullabay and say good sleep put him again go out he screams a bit then sleeps but his naps are 45 min. or 50 min. rarely one hour.İ searched the sample routines about his age and try to implement them to him but no success l will send his last week easy and this week easy

last week

07:00 wake bf
08:00 breakfast
9:30 yogurt
10:40 sleep 12:05
01:00 lunch
03:00 snack
16:45 sleep 18:05
18:30 dinner
19:30 bf
08:30 sleep
10:30 nf

until the the first of june we are like this but for one week
but now
07:00 wake bf
08:00 breakfast
9:30 snack
10:45 sleep l put him bed at 10;05 but sleeps 10:44 wakes 11:41 with crying
12:30 lunch 2:30 snack
04:05 put bed wait he cant sleeps cry l go in not settle go out for 5 min. then go in again put him bed he
 scream for 5 min. then sleep 4:43 but wakes 5:30
with a crying
6:30 dinner
07:30 snack
08:30 bed time
10:00 nf

no waking at night hopefully what is your opinion about the problem it is getting become more difficult to sleep and his naps become shorter l am looking forward to your response thanks for your patience




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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2013, 12:56:51 pm »
Last week you did in the morning 3:40h A time and it worked very well for you, he napped well with that, so why do you offer just 3h A time now?
Could you try going back to that and see if it helps?
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2013, 15:09:53 pm »
Thanks for the response you are right l read the routine so before having a trouble l take precation but l spoilde it today is better the firt activity is nearly four our he slept in 5 min.and he napped for two hours but at tge 50. Min.he screamed for twi min.then go on sleeping why do you think is it about ot? After the this nap l make activity 4hour 25 min.but he didnt want to sleep he cries alot then l take and settle put again in 30 min he managed to sleep with a lot of crying :( so the second activity should be longer for example 4.45 min. And should l wake him after one hour sleep because lt will be nearly bed time .thanks for your patience and concern
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2013, 15:33:14 pm »
One more thing today he wakes from his naps with crying and his second nap was 45 min. Thaks again for your help :)
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2013, 12:26:04 pm »
20:30 is your BT, right? You ARE starting the 2-1 transition so I think you need to aim for one nap to be capped. Which one, AM or PM depends on you and what you think will work better for him.
If you AM nap is the longer one then I wouldn't do the second A time so long, TBH.
Your day can look something like this:
7WU
11:30-13 Nap
16:30-17:15 Nap
20:30 BT

This is just an idea, but you'd need to adjust it to work for you. Perhaps he'd need a shorter or a longer A time before BT and then you move the PM nap, you'll find it out with time. One thing to remember with the 2-1 transition  is that the capped nap doesn't and shouldn't actually come after a full A time because you anyway aim for a short nap and the reason there shouldn't be a full A time before the second nap is that after a full A time baby will want to sleep a full nap and if you cap it he'll be OT for BT because not enough sleep.
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #5 on: June 11, 2013, 15:00:43 pm »
Thanks for your suggestion.his first nap is okay he sleeps for 1, 5  hour or 2 hour but after his fisrt nap the second nap is awful he refused to sleep .l try 4 hour , 4, 15 hour , 3, 45 hour but they dont work and when he sleeps only one nap he cant eat his dinner so l want to have two naps otherwise he becomes o.t  so what is your opinion how long should l do the second activity time for a nap you write it should not be a full activity time but l try and he cant sleep or should l try to make the fisrt nap short .l hope l can explaine my problem thanks for your response.
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #6 on: June 12, 2013, 08:05:50 am »
Sorry, I think I made a mistake in my previous post. I meant that if the first nap is the long one then you can offer a full A time before the second nap if it fits in your day. If the first nap is short then he won't be able to handle a full A time.
How long is your first A time right now? I would try for 3 days to offer the exact same A time for the second A time and if there is still nap refusal then I'd increase it by 10min and try for 3 more days. And we can take it from there.
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #7 on: June 12, 2013, 11:29:16 am »
Happy to see your message l would try your suggestion then informyou :)
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #8 on: June 17, 2013, 11:31:20 am »
Hi again, we are okay our sleeps are fine .l make full activity time for the second nap but the solution is to make abit more sleeping ceromony l am so happy thanks for your concern and patience :)
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Re: 10,5 months and get crazy ?
« Reply #9 on: June 20, 2013, 08:41:20 am »
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