Hi honey, sorry your having a hard time. I still think 1 nap is the way to go. When you tried it the first A was 5hrs 10mins. My LO can't do that, we do the nap after 4-4.5hrs get a nice long nap then BT 4.5 hrs later. If she short naps i would then apop a 20min nap later just to push BT out a bit.