sorry I've been off all week Happy xxx
Huge congrats on Happiette xxx
To get the hardness/lumpiness and pain down, do warm compresses before a feed (facecloths straight out of hot water) to get things flowing properly and then cold (ice cold if you can stand it - again it can be cold facecloths straight from the freezer) for as long as you can stand them straight after.
I adored that moment of putting the cool gel packs in my bra - ahhh the relief (also had the sanitary towel shaped ones for "down there" - so absolutely no dignity at all but ice really, really helps with swelling of every nature xxx)
S x