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Almost 3 year old - major sleep issues
« on: July 10, 2014, 14:42:52 pm »
My son has been a good sleeper pretty much since he turned 1 and went down to one nap.  However, recently (he is currently 33 mo), his night time sleep has been awful.  Previously, his schedule had been:
Wake 7:00
Nap 12:30-3:00
Bed 8:00
Asleep 8:30

Now he is falling asleep later, waking earlier and taking either longer naps or fairly short naps, depending on the day.  He has become very irregular.  Here is his schedule for the past two days:

Day 1:
Wake 5:30
Nap 12:30-3:30
Bed 7:30
Asleep 10:00

Day 2:
Night Wake 2:00
Asleep 3:00
Wake 6:30
Nap 12:30-2:30
Bed 7:45
Asleep 9:15

Day 3 (today):
Wake 4:00

A few things to note...he doesn't give us much trouble about going to bed.  We have a standard bedtime routine and stay calm and relaxed, reading books, singing songs.  Once in bed, he sings, talks about his day, plays with imaginary toys, counts...I really have the impression that his mind just can't slow down enough to fall asleep.  He doesn't come out of his room or ask us for anything. 

Also, some nights he will wake for 1-3 hours and play, sing, etc then go back to sleep.  Other nights, like last night, he will wake and do this, but not go back to sleep.  He stayed in his bed talking, singing etc from 4am until when I got him at 7:30am.  About once every couple of weeks he will sleep very late, until 9 or 10.

Sometimes on the weekends he will take marathon naps, like 3.5-4 hours.  I know this is because he is overtired from lack of nighttime sleep.

I can see a direct correlation between the amount of sleep he gets and the number of tantrums, tears, etc.

This started months ago but continues to get worse.  Right now we are potty training (which isn't helping) and getting ready for a new baby in about a month.  In a few weeks he will also begin transitioning to a new class at school. 

Any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated!!!  We are all tired here and it's not going to get any better with a newborn in the house!!!  Thank you!!

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Re: Almost 3 year old - major sleep issues
« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2014, 15:45:05 pm »
I'm sure the ladies here will have lots of advice, but to me it sounds like it is UT and time to cut the nap back a bit.  I would maybe try capping the nap at say 1.5hrs and see if that helps the long chatty NWs.



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Re: Almost 3 year old - major sleep issues
« Reply #2 on: July 10, 2014, 16:09:42 pm »
I agree re the nap. A 2hr plus nap is hugely long for his age and it's not helping to let him have an epic nap at the weekend. If anything you want to CUT the nap so that he can add the sleep to his nights.





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Re: Almost 3 year old - major sleep issues
« Reply #3 on: July 10, 2014, 18:27:20 pm »
^^^^absolutely!!  It feels wrong to wake them from naps when you know they are tired but night sleep is far more restorative and those huge naps are almost certainly what's causing your issues at the moment.  He'll probably be incredibly grumpy the first few times you do it but have a snack and some fun activities ready to go to distract him, and I suspect you'll see some improvements after a few days.  You can try capping the nap to start with as Lindsay suggested, but you may find very soon it's time for it to go all together.  DD is 30 months and not napping at all.....

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Re: Almost 3 year old - major sleep issues
« Reply #4 on: July 11, 2014, 13:36:25 pm »
Thanks ladies!!  I will definitely try this - makes total sense!!