Well with my first two the bedtime feed was a bottle by 3-6 weeks so DH could feed them but we always did bath and then feed and straight to bed (was the only time we reveresed the E and A) and with DD3 I bf her to sleep until she was 4 months and she stopped falling asleep, so she had bath, bf and then a story with big sisters and bedtime. I think it worked okay because they were not fed to sleep for naps and slept fine then. 1-2 feeds at night sounds great, he is getting close to the next growth spurt though so there might be an increase in feeds then.