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HI and welcome! I am sorry your post has gone unanswered but I think the reason is it should really be in the "then there were two" forum. It is an excellent question! I don't have two so i can't offer any advice. But i can say that sleep for your infant at this stage is critical. It may help everyone's sanity to slow down the schedule of the older one for a few months so that the wee one can get the naps he/she needs.
If you want to PM w/ the both their schedules, i'll try to help (i like a challenge ;-).
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