Stacy - my daughter's bedtime has been between 7:30 and 8:00 p.m. and she wakes up at 6:30 a.m. She rarely wakes during the night, and if she does, a pat usually puts her right back to sleep. She used to make it to 8:00 p.m. when she was napping longer, but she's lately been so tired that she's been going down at 7:30. When she goes down earlier, she usually wakes at about 6:00 a.m., but stays in her crib talking to herself until I go get her at 6:30. She used to have A times of about 1.5 hours (after a .5 hour feed), but since her naps have been getting shorter, it's more like .75, if I'm lucky. This has been getting progressively worse over the last week.
Also, since she's so tired after fighting her nap for an hour, she's been taking her second nap earlier, fighting that for an hour, and then taking her catnap much earlier than she used to (around 3:45 or 4 p.m. instead of 5:00ish). Because of that, her last A time is really long, and she's pretty cranky by bedtime. I haven't tried to extend her catnap, just her first two naps - if I'm unable to get her to extend the first two, should I try to extend her catnap as well?