Hi,
I've been reading all these posts and just knowing all of you are out there makes everything seem do-able!
Anyway, I have a 3 week-old dd (and a 14 mo ds) who I think is probably an angel baby (might be too soon to tell?) but we are having HUGE problems with her morning nap. I put her on EASY the moment we got home from the hospital and have always put her down in the crib for her naps using shush/pat. This is her schedule:
7:30 wake up (usually on her own) and bottle
8:45/9:00 Nap
10:30 Bottle
11:45 Nap
1:30 Bottle
2:45/3 Nap
4:30 Bottle
Catnaps in bouncy chair while we eat dinner
7:00 Bottle
7:30 Bath and wind-down
8 Bottle and bed
Wakes up on her own at 11, 2 and 5 (usually every three hours on the dot!)
We really worked on this schedule to make it jive with my son's day. For instance, I can't feed Sophia while I'm feeding my son.
The two issues we have are what to do when she wakes up at 5:30 (or even 6am) wanting to eat. Sometimes I can give her a pacifier and sit by her and she'll last about 45 minutes, but she's so young that I feel I should feed her. But then it messes up her breakfast feed at 7:30. Anyway, she seems to be waking on her own at 7am, so that might be a better wake-up time for her. It's also difficult to put her down for her first nap with my son around, because he's hard to keep occupied and inevitably gets into trouble. I can resolve that (keeping him in a contained area with toys or something), but I don't know that he would last the 40 minutes or more it usually takes. I know from doing this with my son that it takes a big time commitment, but even if I sit by her and pat and shush she still wakes constantly. I'll think she's asleep, and then 10-15 minutes later she's up again, crying. Finally we've arrived at her next feeding time, and then she's exhausted. Her next two naps are easy and we have to wake her to eat. She's also fantastic at night, just waking to eat and then going back to sleep. Although when she woke up at 5:30am today it took a bit of shushing and patting to get her back to sleep until 7am, when she'd had it. Any ideas why her morning nap is so tricky? With my son it was the easiest nap of the day! I wish I had more time for a wind-down before her nap, but it's hard with a 14 month-old around who likes to climb things. Any advice and suggestions would be so appreciated!